{"id":219,"date":"2013-07-13T11:13:33","date_gmt":"2013-07-13T18:13:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michellejolin.com\/wordpress\/?p=219"},"modified":"2013-07-13T21:00:01","modified_gmt":"2013-07-14T04:00:01","slug":"write-your-own-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=219","title":{"rendered":"Write your own story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>That&#8217;s how I knew this story would break my heart<br \/>\nWhen you wrote it <\/p>\n<p> &#8212;  Aimee Mann<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you write your own story, does that mean you&#8217;ll break your own heart or someone else&#8217;s?<\/p>\n<p>Is some sort of heartbreak mandatory?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>At some point, I suppose, if you are Human&#8230;it probably is.<\/p>\n<p>But you should  write your own story anyway. Any way. <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That&#8217;s how I knew this story would break my heart When you wrote it &#8212; Aimee Mann &nbsp; If you write your own story, does that mean you&#8217;ll break your own heart or someone else&#8217;s? Is some sort of heartbreak mandatory? &nbsp; At some point, I suppose, if you are Human&#8230;it probably is. But you &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=219\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Write your own story<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-219","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-words"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7lr3R-3x","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1595,"url":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=1595","url_meta":{"origin":219,"position":0},"title":"mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa #4","author":"Michelle","date":"September 25, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Because I've been drinking Boneyard RPM and Walking Man Homo Erectus all evening instead of writing, I'm going with a confession this morning instead of my usual rant. 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