{"id":360,"date":"2013-07-18T06:00:34","date_gmt":"2013-07-18T13:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michellejolin.com\/wordpress\/?p=360"},"modified":"2013-07-17T18:24:19","modified_gmt":"2013-07-18T01:24:19","slug":"denial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=360","title":{"rendered":"Truth is like water"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The boat yeah you know she&#8217;s rockin&#8217; it<br \/>\nAnd the truth well you know there&#8217;s no stoppin&#8217;it<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Jack White\/Denial Twist<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Well?<\/p>\n<p>Hmmm.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Oh!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>According to the song, you can&#8217;t stop the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Is\u00a0 that true?<br \/>\nI tend to think so, mostly.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Some people are really good at holding the truth in, but it seems like the it usually manages to squeeze its way out of any available crevice.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>First I was going to say &#8220;like toothpaste&#8221; but then I thought that it would sound better to say it is more like water&#8230;and really, how far could I carry that toothpaste analogy? (Note to self: see what you can do with the toothpaste analogy as a mental exercise. No one will want to see THAT.)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Right. Truth is like water.<\/p>\n<p>Water is\u00a0 so&#8230;so&#8230;.what?<\/p>\n<p>Simultaneously benign and bad-ass.<\/p>\n<p>Watch your kids run through the sprinkler laughing on a hot Summer day, or watch a flooded river tear your home right off its foundation and float it away.<\/p>\n<p>You need water to keep you alive. Water dripping on a rock can wear a hole right through it given enough time. Water can suck you into a whirlpool and kill you.\u00a0 Water inside of you, water in the ocean. (Must resist the urge to throw some Talking Heads verses in&#8230;must&#8230;resist)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Strong through softly unyielding persistence or\u00a0 through big crashing, explosive waves.<\/p>\n<p>The truth can behave the same way as water. As essential to our well being as water,\u00a0 as insidiously and gradually dangerous as the damage from a tiny invisible water leak or as dramatically and immediately destructive as a tsunami&#8230;the truth with generally find its way out into the world.\u00a0 Ready or not. Here it comes.<\/p>\n<p>The truth can be as sweet and soulful as\u00a0 telling your first boyfriend you love him or as mind blowing as\u00a0 telling your husband you&#8217;re addicted to gambling and have been embezzling from work.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Water to sustain you, or water to carry your whole life away.<\/p>\n<p>(Disclaimer&#8211;I&#8217;m not addicted to gambling or embezzling from anyone.)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>People tend to discover who you and what you really are, no matter how you try to hide it. You&#8217;re better off just letting the truth flow out of you. Channel that energy you&#8217;d waste keeping it inside of you into something else. Something cool. Something you&#8217;ve always wanted.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Be ready to share it, to hear it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>No one really wants a truth tsunami, although it would be a relatively good band name.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Have a big glass of water now.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bonus lyric, just because I like it:<\/p>\n<p>If you think holding hands is all in the fingers,<br \/>\nGrab hold of the soul where the memory lingers, and<br \/>\nMake sure to never do it with a singer<br \/>\nCause he&#8217;ll tell everyone in the world<\/p>\n<p>What he was thinking about the girl.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The boat yeah you know she&#8217;s rockin&#8217; it And the truth well you know there&#8217;s no stoppin&#8217;it &#8211;Jack White\/Denial Twist &nbsp; &nbsp; Well? Hmmm. &nbsp; Oh! &nbsp; According to the song, you can&#8217;t stop the truth. Is\u00a0 that true? I tend to think so, mostly. &nbsp; &nbsp; Some people are really good at holding the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=360\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Truth is like water<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-360","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-words"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s7lr3R-denial","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8367,"url":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=8367","url_meta":{"origin":360,"position":0},"title":"Being thankful","author":"Michelle","date":"November 28, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"Yeah, yeah. 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