{"id":490,"date":"2013-08-01T06:00:05","date_gmt":"2013-08-01T13:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michellejolin.com\/wordpress\/?p=490"},"modified":"2013-07-30T17:42:38","modified_gmt":"2013-07-31T00:42:38","slug":"490","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=490","title":{"rendered":"Misinterpretation, anyone?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There comes a time when you swim or sink so I jumped in the drink &#8217;cause I couldn&#8217;t make myself clear.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I wrote in invisible ink, oh I&#8217;ve tried to think how I could&#8217;ve made it appear.<br \/>\n\u2015 <em>Aimee Mann\/Invisible Ink<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Aimee Mann is the Queen of Misunderstanding Angst.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe she&#8217;s\u00a0 the Queen of<em> all<\/em> Angst.<\/p>\n<p>(Didn&#8217;t you love her when she was on &#8220;Buffy the Vampire Slayer&#8221; and performed at the Bronze? Me, too. Also, I miss Buffy.)<\/p>\n<p>But that is not what I want to talk about.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I am easily distracted. Did I mention that?<\/p>\n<p>Oh.<\/p>\n<p>Well.<\/p>\n<p>I am.<\/p>\n<p>Squirrel!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Misunderstanding. Misreading. Misinterpretation.<\/p>\n<p>Mistakes. Misremembering.<\/p>\n<p>All the shit that goes along with trying to communicate.<\/p>\n<p>It is easy for people to talk, but ohhhh.<\/p>\n<p>Not so easy to make ourselves understood.<\/p>\n<p>Between word choice, inattention and the tricks played by memory, it&#8217;s a miracle that anyone understands anything anyone says.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Did you all see this article about scientists <a href=\"http:\/\/www.geekosystem.com\/false-memories-mice\/\" target=\"_blank\">implanting false memories<\/a> in mice? I really need to stop reading shit like that. You know that feeling when you just know for certain that something is true? They can reproduce it by putting a certain protein in your brain and then shining a light on it (I am simplifying a bit).\u00a0 So on top of the problems we already have with communicating, we now have to worry that we&#8217;re trying to communicate about something that may not have even happened? That&#8217;s all I need. I mean, I know that memory is unreliable, I do, but it&#8217;s another thing to have folks working on a how-to.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I suppose I can worry about it once scientists have found a less invasive way to shine light into our brains.\u00a0 At this point it isn&#8217;t exactly something your kids will be able to do just to mess you up.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Watch Aimee <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=zCQ3OyxarRU\" target=\"_blank\">sing &#8220;Invisible Ink&#8221;\u00a0<\/a> if you want&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and many invisible inks will appear if you hold the paper over light.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of things get clearer with light.<\/p>\n<p>Bad skin.<\/p>\n<p>Books.<\/p>\n<p>Flaws in knitting.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully not flaws in logic.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you hold me up to a light, will I be any clearer?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There comes a time when you swim or sink so I jumped in the drink &#8217;cause I couldn&#8217;t make myself clear. Maybe I wrote in invisible ink, oh I&#8217;ve tried to think how I could&#8217;ve made it appear. \u2015 Aimee Mann\/Invisible Ink &nbsp; &nbsp; Aimee Mann is the Queen of Misunderstanding Angst. Or maybe she&#8217;s\u00a0 &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=490\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Misinterpretation, anyone?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-words"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s7lr3R-490","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8293,"url":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=8293","url_meta":{"origin":490,"position":0},"title":"Invisible woman","author":"Michelle","date":"November 27, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"There comes a time when you swim or sink So I jumped in the drink 'Cause I couldn't make myself clear Maybe I wrote in invisible ink Oh, I've tried to think How I could have made it appear --Aimee Mann\/Invisible Ink I wanted to be seen. 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