{"id":515,"date":"2013-07-26T04:03:32","date_gmt":"2013-07-26T11:03:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michellejolin.com\/wordpress\/?p=515"},"modified":"2013-07-26T11:50:03","modified_gmt":"2013-07-26T18:50:03","slug":"im-lost-but-im-not-stranded-yet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=515","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m lost, but I&#8217;m not stranded yet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Egar\u00e9 en chemin<br \/>\nTu verras le pire<\/p>\n<p>Pour trouver le sud<br \/>\nSans perdre le Nord<br \/>\nApr\u00e8s les certitudes<br \/>\nAu-del\u00e0 des bords<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m lost but I&#8217;m not stranded yet<\/p>\n<p><code>-<\/code>&#8211;<em>Noir D\u00e9sir<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Being lost is scary for a lot of people.<\/div>\n<div>I&#8217;ve always sort of enjoyed it.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>When\u00a0 I lived in Paris, I used to go out and try to get\u00a0 a little lost wandering around the city. On purpose. Get on a bus at random. Get off somewhere that looks interesting. Roam around. Get on another bus. Repeat as necessary. It was a way to learn the city and entertain myself on a very limited budget, and since Paris has such great public transportation there was really no way to get too lost.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>It&#8217;s how I ended up having mint tea with a group of North Africans while they helped me figure out the best way for me to get home.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Which is also\u00a0 how I found out how much I assume about others by how they dress.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>It&#8217;s how I ended up finding a shoe store with prices even I could afford on the weird looking stuff I loved.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>It&#8217;s how I found the only place in Paris to buy tortillas and refried beans, and a great deli.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>It&#8217;s how I found out that being uncomfortable can sometimes be not only good for you but also a lot of fun.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>This doesn&#8217;t apply to getting lost when you need to be somewhere at a specific time.<\/div>\n<div>Like, say, a job interview.<\/div>\n<div>Even then, I got lucky.<\/div>\n<div>One time, a cute Italian guy took pity on me and gave me a ride to my appointment\u00a0 in his Ferrari.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>In retrospect, he may have thought <em>he<\/em> was the one who was going to get lucky&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"filter-item\"><code>\u00a0<\/code><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Egar\u00e9 en chemin Tu verras le pire Pour trouver le sud Sans perdre le Nord Apr\u00e8s les certitudes Au-del\u00e0 des bords I&#8217;m lost but I&#8217;m not stranded yet -&#8211;Noir D\u00e9sir &nbsp; Being lost is scary for a lot of people. I&#8217;ve always sort of enjoyed it. When\u00a0 I lived in Paris, I used to go &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=515\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I&#8217;m lost, but I&#8217;m not stranded yet<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-515","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-words"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7lr3R-8j","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":6396,"url":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=6396","url_meta":{"origin":515,"position":0},"title":"To be, or not to be&#8230;on a writing break","author":"Michelle","date":"June 29, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"The first time I saw \"To Be, Or Not To Be\" was in the mid-80's when I was living in Paris. 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