{"id":8011,"date":"2014-10-22T05:30:33","date_gmt":"2014-10-22T12:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michellejolin.com\/wordpress\/?p=8011"},"modified":"2014-10-21T22:27:54","modified_gmt":"2014-10-22T05:27:54","slug":"what-have-i-done-for-me-lately","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=8011","title":{"rendered":"What have I done for me lately?"},"content":{"rendered":"

And I’m doing nothing wrong
\nRiding in your car
\nYour radio playing
\nWe sing up to the eighth floor
\nA rooftop, in Manhattan
\nOne in the morning
\nWhen you said something
\nThat I’ve never forgotten
\nWhen you said something
\nThat was really important
\n–PJ Harvey\/You Said Something<\/p>\n

Don’t run back inside
\nDarling you know just what I’m here for
\nSo you’re scared and you’re thinking
\nThat maybe we ain’t that young anymore
\nShow a little faith there’s magic in the night
\n–Bruce Springsteen\/Thunder Road\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

To follow up on nothing coming from nothing…
\nIf there has to be a something that the something comes from, what is my “something”?<\/p>\n

If the something that starts something is a catalyst, then mine is often a person. There is one in particular who I sometimes don’t like very much, but always love. One I have a relationship with that is both important to me and frequently maddening. He isn’t the direct cause of anything I have ever done in the past or of anything I might do now, but he has been a spark to a lot of things over the years, in bad ways and good. <\/p>\n

Writing, for sure. I don’t consider the blog a “something good” because it is so jam packed with good writing and profound thinking, but because it was a way for me to reach out to people I was having a really hard time reaching, including myself. You know who you are, people who are difficult to reach. Everyone wave hello…<\/p>\n

“We should write a book,” he said.
\n“We already are,” I answered.<\/p>\n

So I started scribbling. I scribble through everything because the spark sort of got away from me a little and it turned into a bonfire and I can’t stop. Oops. The world knows what is going on in my head before I know these days. I scribble in the car, or at work. I wake up to write things down. I neglect..pretty much everything. <\/p>\n

The catalyst now owes me at least several chapters of a book, and if he thinks I am going to do his writing for him he is very much mistaken. I can only write what I write, and that only just barely. I definitely can’t write what other people write. <\/p>\n

But if nothing comes from nothing and is earned by doing something good, then what good have I ever done to deserve anything? Is that my question to answer? Can I assume that if good things happen to me, I must have earned them or they wouldn’t be happening?<\/p>\n

Sometimes I wonder if the people who cause good things to happen are aware of it. If they are motivated by it. If it even counts as good if you’re doing it to get some sort of Karmic ticket punched.<\/p>\n

I don’t know that I have done any Good. Not in an important sort of way. I do know that I don’t worry much about it. It might be the only thing I don’t worry about…maybe I am more adapted to lower case good. Making people laugh. Listening to my friends. Not killing people at work. Being kind to people, mostly. <\/p>\n

We can’t all be Mother Teresa. I can just barely do a good job of being me.<\/p>\n

Scribbling away at this helps. I am glad I did enough of something good to earn having someone in my life who poked me in this direction. <\/p>\n

Thanks, Sparky.<\/p>\n

Now if someone can catalyze me into some exercise and a better diet, that would be a Very Good Thing indeed….<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

And I’m doing nothing wrong Riding in your car Your radio playing We sing up to the eighth floor A rooftop, in Manhattan One in the morning When you said something That I’ve never forgotten When you said something That was really important –PJ Harvey\/You Said Something Don’t run back inside Darling you know just … Continue reading What have I done for me lately?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-words"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7lr3R-25d","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8149,"url":"https:\/\/michellejolin.com\/?p=8149","url_meta":{"origin":8011,"position":0},"title":"An imaginary conversation about waking up cranky","author":"Michelle","date":"November 6, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"What do you want now? 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